Mother,Mom,Maa, Amma,Ammi,Mata.Different names,different languages,different cultures but same personality,that is,Love and tenderness.I can’t describe mother in just these two words.I am not capable of,noone is capable to define love of mother in few words,it is as impossible as counting stars in this universe.
As a son i am never able to thank a person who tries her best to keep you safe from all sorrows,troubles of the world.
I remember the days when i was a kid and my mom was used to getup early in the morning,5/6 0 Clock and got ready to prepare breakfast for me,combing my hair,preparing meal for my school break or what not.She has been doing it for years,without any complain. I wonder can i show such patience?Offcourse not.Yes she has often beaten me up,she used to get mad at me,at that time i started crying,getting restless,but when i grew up,I realized that whatever she did,it was good for me.
I am not a 100% obedient son of my mother.I know I have hurt her oftenly,both intentially and unintentially but it does not mean that I don’t love my mother.NO i love her a lot,i dont know how much because I can’t measure it anyway.Due to my short temper nature my mother and others often consider me a guy with attitude,it doesn’t mean tht my mom doesn;t know me but i give such impression to her but very next moment I went to my maa,sit near her feet and says Sorry to her,she has got such a magical personlity tht I forget everything,every sorrws of mine when she hugs me.Wow,didn;t Allah give us a wonderful gift in form of mother.I was watching a hindi movie in which actoress says to her mom that God coudn’t be everywhere in physical form for us,thatswhy He created mother and its true.When Allah explains the love He has for his creature,he compared it with love of a mother that is,He(SWT) says that He loves us 70,000 times more than a mother.Read what G.Washington says about his mother:
My mother was the most beautiful woman I ever saw. All I am I owe to my mother. I attribute all my success in life to the moral, intellectual and physical education I received from her.
For every child,his mother is most beautiful.We are reflections of our mothers and we should never ruin her image by any mean in our lives.
Today we see things like oldage houses where people actually throw their parents.Curse of Allah upon such people.Curse of mine on such people.Why don’t such people think that they would reach to same age one day, kick his mother out of home because shes like a burden,even sons do same and this is not in WEST only,it is in Pakistan too yeah,i got surpirsed when i saw a documentry on Alrahman-Alrahim channel in which they interviewed ladies and gentlemen who were parents fo some frigging guys and girls.They interviewed around 20 parents and NONE of them cursed to their kids,they were still praying for the health of their kids,those kids who sent them to such hell like place.Man i was weeping,no we can’t return our parents efforts back never ever.What can you return to your mother?What about the pain and burden she had when you were in her womb?Can you return that?or what about the endless nights and mornings she ruined for sake of your better health and future.I bet you would start frowning after few days.
Few years back I was very excited to go abroad for job and whnever i discussed it with my mom or dad,they didnt refuse at all but i could see their sad eyes but i was to careless that i never noticed them or say i didnt give them importance but i have experienced many things in past 2 years which brought lots of changes in me.Now after living 3 years in Dubai,i realize that my parents are at stage where they need me rather my money,everytime i talk to her she worried about me.(my sister said whenever at home they do iftar she ask how can i do iftar in abroad)So keep loving you mom,do tell her that you love her,I am not so expressive as i mentioned but I know you guys are not like me.Do tell her before it gets late .It will be your mother’s prayers who brought you up.So many times i was saved from infinite harms and sorrows in life and it was all due to my mother’s prayers.I used to read an event in religious books about Moses(AS),as you know that Moses(AS) had privilege to talk Allah(SAW) directly,one day when HE was going to listen God’s order and he fumbled,God said to moses to be careful as Her mother doesnt exist anymore,it tells us how powerful are mother’s prayers.So please dont lose such wonderful personality,love her as much as you can,also tell me how can i express my feelings to her:)
I dont know what have i written above,its just i kept writing with moist eyes,yeah I couldn’t control myself when i was thinking about my mother.May Allah gives her big and wonderful life(ameen) so pardon me for random thoughts.In last i would quote a hadith about Importance of mother in Islam.
A man came to the Prophet and asked:”Messenger of Allah, who is the most deserving of good care from me?” The Prophet replied: “Your mother (which he repeated three times) then your father, then your nearest relatives in order”.
